• Supporting your friendships with others

  • Me-time when we are together

  • Reevaluating vetos and deal breakers

  • Discussing individual and co-regulatory strategies

  • Hickeys and traces from other encounters or people

    Would you like more, less or the same amount of this?

    A handful of cards to ask some important questions. Because needs and preferences change and can differ among people. Let’s sit down from time to time and ask each other – in a calm moment – about the needs of our counterpart.
    Knowing if someone wants more, less, or the same amount of it makes it easier to respond more mindfully next time. Our cards help to consider the things that remain unregarded or have never been discussed before.

    • Flirting
      with others
      in your presence

    • Cultivating
      rituals and routines for comings and goings

    • Discussing relationship privileges

    • Inviting you into my family

    POLY EDITION

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    Set of 50 cards
    Questions about relationship styles, jealousy, time management and topics we sometimes forget to discuss.

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    These cards are a project by Valerie & Beni. (There are other editions available in German.) The poly cards have been created in collaboration with Jessica Fern, author of Polysecure and Polywise.